All they say is “Ashewo” when she stands her ground

It’s actually a matter of concern that men who cannot handle the appurtenance of a woman they seek to woo becomes a theme for insecurity on their path.

0:00hi guys it’s Kimora and today I’ll be

0:04talking about something that has been

0:05annoying me for a while now it’s how men

0:09feel almost men feel triggered when a

0:12lady stands around and then the first

0:14response to it is

0:16properly known as prostitutes to most of

0:19them I’m trying to understand why is it

0:22something so annoying so you have this

0:25encounter or let me say I had this

0:26encounter I go to somewhere and get

0:29something and I’m probably doing

0:32something that I’m comfortable with and

0:34then I have or we have an authentication

0:37with somebody else

0:39and we’re just having this whole Rumble

0:41and response and just arguments and then

0:44because I’m not backing out of the fight

0:47the second response I get from a person

0:49is ashawu because like am I sleeping

0:52with your father or your mother who like

0:54what’s the problem are you troubled at

0:56home did they not teach you or give you

0:58good home training that you just have to

1:00come and spoil someone’s day not only

1:02did you spawn my day by causing me to

1:05have an argument with you because God I

1:07am an amazing soul Who’s never going to

1:08look for a trouble

1:10then you have to go on to now call me a

1:14whole me ashawo because because of what

1:17why so I’m not trying to really

1:19understand why why would they do that I

1:21mean it’s okay it’s fine you have your

1:26um you have the right to your words but

1:28as much as you have the right your words

1:30try as much as possible to also be

1:33careful about the person’s feelings

1:35I mean yeah I know I’m not but you

1:39really shouldn’t just go around throwing

1:41around these words or just seeing them

1:43because you feel you have the right time

1:45because you feel triggered or your manly

1:48wood has been tampered with by a lady

1:50that doesn’t want to step out of a fight

1:53tell me why so when I say women standing

1:57their ground I think most of us don’t

1:59exactly understand so let me give you a

2:02little bit of illustration let’s say

2:04you’re on the road as a young girl and

2:07you’re walking down the street you just

2:10want to go out and get your favorite

2:11snack because you’re tired and you’re so

2:14bored out of your head but

2:17all you have to do is to step out of

2:20this house walk down the street that has

2:23men sitting side by side and you

2:26obviously know you’re going to be cat

2:28called

2:29but now the best thing you have to do is

2:31pick up an earphone and walk out of your

2:33house right

2:36today you meet oga chinedu a reference

2:40and other decides to go a little bit

2:44further in his checking game by stopping

2:47you on the road

2:49now you obviously are tired and upset

2:52that someone else is trying to spoil or

2:54stop or get interfere with your outing

2:57or whatever little journey you want to

2:59do and you tell him no

3:03and obviously because Mr chinedu doesn’t

3:05like to take or doesn’t like rejections

3:08his first response to you is ashawuna so

3:11they don’t use you dump you that’s one

3:13then now let’s go into another one you

3:16get into a tricycle

3:19and you have your change with you or you

3:21have your money with you

3:23the thing is the driver did not tell you

3:26please come in with your change or did

3:28not tell you how we change you or I no

3:30get change and because you know that he

3:34didn’t say that you didn’t bother

3:35telling him organization I get with me

3:38and obviously it’s not a big it’s not a

3:40large currency it’s just 500 now so and

3:42you expect that because of the high

3:45increase that he’s going to take he’s

3:46going to have change so you get to your

3:49destination and you’re about to drop and

3:53you bring out your change and the second

3:54thing the driver goes is goes for is

3:56Asha when I saw you they do I mean you

3:59don’t think I’ll be your mate or

4:00something and you obviously get upset

4:01that someone will just randomly see you

4:04and start calling you names so you shout

4:07back at him and then people gather

4:09around and start saying and as soon as

4:11she don’t sleep around with so many men

4:12she don’t get shoulder please why

4:16why would they do that and the funniest

4:18part about all of this is there are most

4:21times women present will never ever

4:24stick up or like just stand up for the

4:27fellow women there you’re just going to

4:29be mutant quite like what the hell why

4:31are you now and then you now come and be

4:33shouting feminine families these

4:35families that please don’t try it so my

4:37own hairs just give me a little bit of

4:40voice notes and I’m going to check out

4:43the next section to talk about why you

4:45think most men do this or why people do

4:47this just we could actually discuss it

4:50in our next session thank you

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